Doing YOU WELL Wednesday #39 and a tribute to a dear friend



an encouragement link up and remembering a friend
Today, October 30th, is a bittersweet day for my family and I. One year ago today my husband lost his best friend and our children lost their god-father, Gary Ward Crawford, after only a three month battle with cancer. He left behind a wife and three beautiful children ages 5, 8 and 16. Cancer is a devastating disease that affects more people now than ever before and I.hate.it.with.a.passion!! Today is bitter because this day a year ago the world lost

Mastering YOU Monday...who's lovin' you?

mastering life by loving ourselves
In our quest to mastering ourselves and mastering life, we must learn to master our relationships with others!  

I have come to the conclusion that issues women have with other women and people in general for that matter, can be solved immediately.  How you ask? By following these two commandments…first: love the Lord your God with all your heart, mind and soul, second: love your neighbors as yourself. Easy peasy right…hah, if only it could be!  We sometimes trip over that last one. Why? Because many of us do just that…we love our neighbors just as we love ourselves…we DON’T!  We treat others just like we treat ourselves…we beat each other up with our mouths(like we do ourselves),

"Michell's Weekly Pearl"...(Should I Tell Him How I Really Feel)

an advice column and a question about being upfront with others

As always, I thank you for joining me for another edition of  "Michell's Weekly Pearl", where I seek to use Godly wisdom to offer encouragement. If this is your first time visiting, let me tell you a little about my advice series. This is where you can ask me anything on marriage, women's issues, family matters, relationships, parenting, homemaking, or life in general. If you want an honest, biblically based, to the point answer; email me your questions via prowessandpearls@gmail.com (please put "MWP" in the subject area). I'll post your question, along with my answer, anonymously. Easy as that! I'll also delete your email once I've transferred your question. To read all the questions and answers in this series, you can do so (HERE).







 



 
Keep sending in those questions!!! In the meantime, read on to see what "Should I Tell Him How I Really Feel" asked...

Doing YOU WELL Wednesday #38 and something totally "new"

an encouragement link up
Hey ALL…Happy HUMP Day!! I’ve got an idea that I want to run by everyone. So tell me what you think?


I don’t know about you all, but I’m finding myself not being able to get to all the blogs that I love to read. So I thought to myself…”self, how can I solve this problem”? You know me, I didn’t want it to just be myself who benefits from the solution...I wanted to include all my friends! So I was thinking about starting a FB group for us bloggers! I know, I know…been there, done that! And I'm sure some of us belong to a few…but I don’t know about you, I just seem to get lost in those “big” groups and I’ve found that people just don’t play fair, which is one of my major “pet peeves”

How ugly can you get...my story!

promoting unityI asked a question last week for Mastering YOU Monday…are you willing to be “ugly” for one day in order to be “beautiful”  in Him for a lifetime?  You can read that post HERE. This week I’m bringing to you Part 2!

 My post from last week dealt with us giving of ourselves to help others. This week I’ll deal with us giving of ourselves, to help ourselves. How you ask do we help ourselves by giving of ourselves…so He can use us for His glory! I know, totally opposite from last week, huh?  In essence though, this still applies to the question…how many of us are willing to die to our flesh to be in a position to be used greatly by Him? I promise, I’m going somewhere with this y’all!

"Michell's Weekly Pearl"...(Not Sure What to Say)

an advice column question about comforting a friend
 As always, I thank you for joining me for another edition of  "Michell's Weekly Pearl", where I seek to use Godly wisdom to offer encouragement. If this is your first time visiting, let me tell you a little about my advice series. This is where you can ask me anything on marriage, women's issues, family matters, relationships, parenting, homemaking, or life in general. If you want an honest, biblically based, to the point answer; email me your questions via prowessandpearls@gmail.com (please put "MWP" in the subject area). I'll post your question, along with my answer, anonymously. Easy as that! I'll also delete your email once I've transferred your question. To read all the questions and answers in this series, you can do so (HERE).




 


Keep sending in those questions!!! In the meantime, read on to see what "Not Sure What to Say" asked...

Doing YOU WELL Wednesday #37 and some co-hosting

an encouragement link up What day is it? Hump Daaaaaayyy! Welcome everyone to another Doing YOU WELL Wednesday! Hope you all are doing yourselves "fantabulously well"! Not too much going on here in the Pulliam household - it feels good to be able to wind down a little. So, I guess my "doing you well" for this week is that I get to chill-ax for a change! :-) 

Did you all know that October is "Pastor's Appreciation Month"? So please make sure you tell/show your pastor how much you appreciate them!

Chain "Linky" Climb


Hi readers! I thought I'd do something a little different today! I'm co-hosting this month's "Chain Linky Climb" blog hop, with the lovely Angel over at  "Sew Crafty Angel" and Angie over at "God's Growing Garden". If you're interested in growing your blog and getting new followers, join in! Don't forget to come back tomorrow for the "Doing YOU WELL Wednesday" linky-party!

Mastering YOU Monday...how ugly can you get?



mastering life by putting others first
Happy Monday everyone!! Question…are you willing to be ugly for one day in order to be beautiful in Him for a lifetime? I owe a big THANKS to my husband for giving me the title for this one…thanks darlin’! ;-) You see we were talking last week about making changes and he posed this question and of course my wheels got to spinning. So I ask the question, how many of us are willing to die to our flesh to be in a position to be used greatly by Him?



God loves us, but don’t get it twisted, He doesn't care

"Michell's Weekly Pearl"...(Is It Abuse)



an advice column question about domestic abuse in relationships
As always, I thank you for joining me for another edition of  "Michell's Weekly Pearl", where I seek to use Godly wisdom to offer encouragement. If this is your first time visiting, let me tell you a little about my advice series. This is where you can ask me anything on marriage, women's issues, family matters, relationships, parenting, homemaking, or life in general. If you want an honest, biblically based, to the point answer; email me your questions via prowessandpearls@gmail.com (please put "MWP" in the subject area). I'll post your question, along with my answer, anonymously. Easy as that! I'll also delete your email once I've transferred your question. To read all the questions and answers in this series, you can do so (HERE).




Keep sending in those questions!!! In the meantime, read on to see what "Is It Abuse" asked...

Doing YOU WELL Wednesday #36 and a state championship


an encouragement link up and winning a state championship
Happy Hump Day y’all!! Hope everyone is doing well…I am! This week, Monday to be exact, I started my new series…”Mastering YOU Monday”.  I hope you’ll join me each Monday! If you missed it, you can read that post right ----> HERE

On another note, our youngest son Blake and his high school track team are doing themselves well! Why you ask…because they are the 2013 AAAA State Championships in track and field in SC! Whoop whoop! They actually won back in May, but they just got their rings last week. So as a proud momma, you know I had

Mastering YOU Monday...time for a check-up ladies!


mastering life and doing a seff evaluation

Welcome! I’m so excited about getting back to posting on Mondays! And I’m really excited about my new series, “Mastering YOU Monday” where I’ll be blogging about things we need to unload out of our lives that hinder us from mastering ourselves so we can fully LIVE OUR LIVES! As my husband would say, “gettin’ rid of our stinkin’ thinkin’”! This week, I’ll be laying the foundation and giving you the background of why I started this series.

Anyone who knows me or reads my blog knows that “Doing YOU WELL” is my mantra, my catch phrase and my tagline. Some of you may ask, what exactly is this chick talking

"Michell's Weekly Pearl"...(Not Needed Anymore)



and advice column question about disciplining children
I missed you guys last week! As always, I thank you for joining me for another edition of  "Michell's Weekly Pearl", where I seek to use Godly wisdom to offer encouragement. If this is your first time visiting, let me tell you a little about my advice series. This is where you can ask me anything on marriage, women's issues, family matters, relationships, parenting, homemaking, or life in general. If you want an honest, biblically based, to the point answer; email me your questions via prowessandpearls@gmail.com (please put "MWP" in the subject area). I'll post your question, along with my answer, anonymously. Easy as that! I'll also delete your email once I've transferred your question. To read all the questions and answers in this series, you can do so (HERE).
 

Keep sending in those questions!!! In the meantime, read on to see what "Not Needed Anymore" asked...

Doing YOU WELL Wednesday #35 and a new series

an encouragement link up and starting a new series

Is it just me or are you all glad it's October too?! Whoopwhoop! What a bad hostess I was last week though, wouldn’t you say…throwing a party and not even showing up to it. I mean really now, who does that! I sure hope you all will forgive me…I.promise.to.do.better! :-)  I’ll be visiting each and every one of you who commented last week, to return some love your way!