Well, I did it! I did something yesterday that freed me.
What is it? I called my dad and wished him a “Happy Anniversary”. This may seem
ordinary to you, but to me, it was a very BIG deal. You see, my parents were
married for almost 45 years before my mom passed away suddenly on August 2,
2007. My dad remarried exactly 4
months to the date - December 2, 2007 - at the very same altar where my mom’s casket had once sat…IKR! :-)
This was a lot for my sisters and I to digest, as all of our lives all we had
known was mom and dad…together. We were told by others that we all wore the
same clothes to my dad’s wedding that day, we had worn to my mother’s funeral…we
hadn’t planned this, I promise…SERIOUSLY, LOL! :-) I guess we
did it subconsciously. Anyway, it took
me five years to come to the realization that,
